Tuesday, February 17

I know, I know

It's been two months since I last posted. If you haven't guessed, I'm not blogging very much anymore! Way to state the obvious. I still cook and take pictures, though a little less of both as far as new and creative things go. From a couple VERY busy months at work to having the priority of rest (from work in the evenings) and health during my pregnancy, my blog is at the bottom of the list. I'm sure many of you understand!

I'll likely resume my blog a little more to post baby pictures, though at that point, I will either open a separate blog with a password, or add password access to this one.

My pregnancy:
-> Going very well. I'm 28 weeks, and the baby moves a lot. Ryan has enjoyed feeling the baby move for the last few weeks as well. I'm in the third trimester and can hardly believe it already! I can [safely] give birth in the next 9-14 weeks. I was brave enough to include a picture from 27 weeks, to the right.

-> The midwives have been great so far, and I'm thankful for the option of The Midwife Center to give birth our our child in May. So far, so good for remaining low risk to remain out of the hospital.

-> Three excellent books that greatly influenced my approach to birth and pregnancy are:
- The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth
- Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way
- Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

-> Our intention is to cloth diaper. I am decided on prefolds with covers, and look forward to it. We hope to use a diaper service the first month or so which will help ease us into baby life, cloth diapering, and laundry, especially living in an apartment with communal laundry facilities.

-> We are not finding out the gender nor telling a soul a hint of any names, but below is an amazingly clear, cute, adorable ultrasound profile from 21 weeks.

-> Thanks to a Webster certfied chiropractor, I found relief from some discomfort related to my pregnancy, and am back to feeling pretty good. Except when I try to roll over or get up off the floor. That won't change anytime soon :).

Why do I want to remain out of the hospital to give birth? We believe a birth center is the option for us to achieve a natural birth with little intervention and with the support we need to accomplish natural childbirth. We have many desires for how we'd like the birth to go or not go, and barring a true emergency or risk situation, we don't believe we need all the things the hospital likes to offer (or sometimes, force you into thinking are required). There are risks with each intervention, and when the benefit of the intervention outweighs the risk of not doing it, we'll gladly accept it. We also appreciate the attentive care of the midwives and admire their experience and knowledge of how birth should go.

Our life
-> Ryan is nearing the end of three years of seminary. Lord willing, he will graduate a few days after our baby is expected to be born. Yep, it's gonna be a full month!

-> Our first anniversary is next week. We look forward to a three-night stay at a cozy B&B in Lancaster, PA, when we attend the wedding of one of my dear college friends. It's been an awesome year being married to my best friend.

-> Our future after graduation is unknown, except that we hope to be caring for a healthy newborn and continuing to enjoy marriage.

-> Here's a recent photo of my very handsome husband


Chic Mama said...

Yeah! Nice to see other Christian Mamas in the MDC due date club! Your babe looks beautiful and way to go on not finding our the gender (neither do we!)! By the way, you will love your cloth diaper decision! I just got a bunch of fitteds in the mail today and CDed my son from 6 months on- I could never think about doing it any other way! God Bless and I'll see you around MDC


Meliss said...

I'm so excited for you about your impending delivery! We have had midwives for 3 out of 4 of the births of our children. I even had a homebirth with Logan (#4). I also have done cloth diapers with all of my four. Anyhoo, I will be looking forward to the big announcement to come!

P.S. I met you at Calvin. I'm a cousin of Ryan. Glad to find your blog.

Anonymous said...

What an informative blog! We're so glad that your pregnancy has gone smoothly, and we can't wait to meet the littlest Hemphill :)

Anonymous said...

Glad to see things are going well for you and your pregnancy! I had major problems with my lower back when I was pregnant that affected me the same way yours seems to. A pillow between my knees really helped when I slept.

Ina May's book saved my plan for a natural birth! Little did I know when I read it that one of the stories would come in handy... it was about a women with low amniotic fluid who labored on her hands and knees. When I got to the hospital (I birthed at AGH with Anne from the Midwife Center) the midwife checked my fluid level and told me it was too low and I would need to be hooked to an IV and monitered the entire time:( I asked if I could try getting on all fours and she could test me again... she agreed and was suprised to see that it worked! I rocked on a birthing ball on all fours for the entire time, using a wet rag to bite on during contractions. I never made a sound the entire labor! The nurses couldn't believe how quiet and peaceful the room was. It was amazing! I think books like Ina May's really help women to realize the power they have in the birthing process. I can't wait to hear your story!

-erin w.

Anonymous said...

Alicia-You look so cute pregnant! We're so excited for you and Ryan. By the way, I thought the last diaper service in Pittsburgh closed down a few years ago.

Anne Miller

Rebecca said...

What a wonderful update! :) You look so cute and beautiful pregnant! Oh my. God is so good. All the time. I love you soooo much!!! xoxo

Rebecca said...

What a wonderful update! :) You look so cute and beautiful pregnant! Oh my. God is so good. All the time. I love you soooo much!!! xoxo

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